The Ingredients of Friendship

Friends. It's not just friend, but friends. It's not just a six-letter word, it's a seven-letter word. Do you remember when you got your first friend? You must be very happy at that time, right? So did I.

As the second daughter in my family, my very first friend is surely my lovely elder sister. Thank God I have a sister. I can't imagine if I don't have her, what my life would be, what my self would be. You know, having an elder sister is like having a role model. Although we used to fight each other, as children, I honestly always observed her before I do anything. The way she talked to people, the way she wore her clothes, OMG my sister shouldn't read this post. Beside that, we used to share our clothes, I always got the secondhand stuff, pity me, pity younger sister -___-

There's a relation between friends called friendship. Friendship is like a circle that consists of smaller circles inside it. It is us who can manage those circles to be balanced.
How to manage them in a good way?
What is the recipe?
I'll tell you some best ingredients.

TRUST. It's clear that before you make friend with someone, you have to make sure you can trust him/her. Why? One of the reasons why I want to have friend is I want to have someone that I can tell him/her anything, anything that I can't tell others.

CARE. I'm happy when some people care about me. When someone asks: "Why do you care so much about that person?" The answers might be: "Because he's my dad", "She's my sister", or "She is my friend". Yes, because we care about him/her, that's why we're friends.

UNDERSTAND. Understand each other. It's like when your friends fully understand your feeling without you tell 'em. Got it?

SHARE. You can share anything with your friends, like new stuff or food. Not only that. You can also share your feeling to them. When you're down, just call your friend and you'll feel better, right?

What I want to tell ya is never tired of looking for friends, you can never live alone, we can never live alone. 

I found a nice quote:

Best friends are people you know you don't need to talk to every single day. You don't even need to talk to each other for weeks, but when you do, it's like you never stopped talking.